12:29 AM



doesnt giving away your opinion means that you're judging already?
opinion: a personal view, attitude, or appraisal.
judgement: the opinion formed.

i was browsing through my juniors blog. such sad things that they still have people spamming their blogs and friends trying to defend them. i never had the experience to have been spam by people. i kinda tried defending others but sometimes, just sometimes, people JUST CANNOT UNDERSTAND. so, trust me, its no use. just LET THEM BE. LET THEM, BEEEEE! and if you seriously want to 'diss' them, dear spammers, use proper language, please. not only does it make you more like a fool, you'll be laughed at. since you're the one who's allegedly the 'better' one and the one's 'giving advice', you should at least have achieved the vast knowledge of using proper language, right? (:

so, it is really unavoidable to be judgemental. its not our fault. it is already in the brain system to have our own opinion about something. etched in the nervous system to have the five senses to describe and have our own conclusion/assumption/prediction. yes, to each his/her own. but if the person is daring enough to do what he/she is doing (whish might be extraordinary abnormal hence the 'glances') then he/she should be up to face the 'consequences'. take for example there's a raya gathering and everybody's planning to wear their baju kurung. you want to 'stand out' so you wear a kebaya but kebaya among the your friends is a bit ternet due to its quite-fitting cutting. so you must prepare yourself to be ready for any verbal assault from just anyone. because that, my darling, is the freedom of speech. expressing one's thoughts and opinions.

and that is why i believe our dearest Prophet Muhammad pbuh said to think before you speak. one: you canot take back your words. two: even though the tounge doesnt have any backbone, it is the sharpest thing on earth and can cut a heart into smithereens, tiny tiny tiny pieces. three: just so you'll be a wise person who always take into account of everything.